i know i've got a few friends helping me set it up...
i'm trying to look at several other sites to see what i can do to get members for my site but for now it's going to stay hidden from most till i can get enough of it up and running which i know will be a while...
hopefully it wont take too long but who knows...

when the site gets to a point where i can start accepting others i'll start telling others the url for it...
which reminds me would i be allowed to affiliate my site with this one some time later???
i dont need an answer now but i was just curious is all...